Don’t you hate unsolicited acne care advice? Often it comes from a loving friend or family member who has never actually had acne themselves, but think they know exactly how to treat acne.
The things they say, even if well-meaning, can sting. How can you deal with unwanted advice without blowing your top or letting it eat at you?
1. Educate yourself on acne causes and treatments.
Often, much of the advice doled out to acne sufferers by family or close pals is based on information that is out-dated or just plain wrong.
Know what really causes acne, and what doesn’t. Learn which acne treatments work, and those that are pure treatment myths. Having this knowledge will help you discern the good advice from the bad, and give you the confidence to disregard information you know is false. Or, if you’re feeling really exasperated, the ammunition to prove someone wrong.2. Consider where the advice is coming from.
Does the person care about you, and is genuinely trying to help? Or is this person just being a jerk? If it’s the former, indulge them with a smile and let it go.
If it’s the latter, ignore the comment. Braver sorts may want to call them on their rude behavior. Politely, of course. There’s nothing wrong with pointing out when comments are making you uncomfortable.
3. End the conversation, if necessary.
You aren’t obligated to stand and listen to someone share their acne treatment tips. A simple, “Thanks, but I’m fine,” should suffice.
Occasionally you may run across that persistent individual who won’t catch more subtle hints. In this case, a more deliberate response is required. Try, “Enough about me, let’s talk about you.” Or even, “I don’t care to discuss this anymore.”
Remember you don’t have to share all the details of your treatment either, especially with those who love to share acne treatment horror stories.
And, if all else fails, try to keep your sense of humor about it and pay no attention to discourteous comments. Make it a point to surround yourself with people who love and support you no matter what.
